How to last longer in bed (18+)
Reaching climax faster than your
partner is common, so don’t get down
on yourself. Fortunately, most people
who climax quickly can learn how to
last longer. Exercises and lifestyle
changes can help improve control,
and there are lots of climax-delaying
techniques you could try during sex.
Climax control products and
medications could also be worth a
shot. If your partner finishes too soon,
try to approach the topic as a Team.
Avoid placing blame, and let them
know that you want to work together to
build physical and emotional intimacy.
CHAPTER ONE (Making Lifestyle
Changes)
1. Relax and encourage yourself
Anxiety and self-doubt are major
mood killers, so try to be optimistic.
Approaching sex with confidence,
self-respect, and a positive attitude
can make all the difference for both
you and your partner.
Instead of dwelling on negative
thoughts about your performance,
think to yourself, “Sam, finishing
fast is common and you shouldn’t
get down on yourself. You can
deal with this!”
Referring to yourself by name can
be more effective when practicing
positive masturbation
2. Work on lasting longer during
masturbation
Trying to reach climax as quickly as
possible during masturbation can
train your body to expect a quick
finish. Masturbating a few times, a
week and a couple hours before sex
can help delay climax, especially if you practice lasting longer when you
masturbate.
3. Start doing pelvic floor exercises
Exercising the muscles that control
ejaculation can help you last longer.
To identify these muscles, stop
urination midstream and tighten the
muscles that prevent passing gas. To
exercise them, tighten them for 3 seconds, relax for 3 seconds, then
repeat 5 to 10 times.
It might be easier at first to
exercise while lying down or
seated, but try to do them
standing, too. As you strengthen
the muscles, aim for 3 sets of 10
repetitions per day.
Try to only tighten those muscles
that help control urination and
passing gas. Don’t just flex your
buttocks or thighs.
Breathe normally as you exercise,
and avoid holding your breath.
Tune in tomorrow for part 2
Courtesy: Queen Preshii
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